Accepting The Fact That You Will Be Breaking Up.
Posted on 29. Mar, 2007 in Exclusive Articles
Whether you have been in a relationship for three months or three years, the after effects can last for months after that, if not more than that. Accepting the fact that you might be breaking up with your lover can be a tough time for either one or both of the people involved, but there are ways to ease the pain. A person’s mental stability is tested when the person they love brings up the fact that it just isn’t working out and even though you might not feel the same connection you did at the beginning, it still hurts a lot. One thing that might hurt a bit more is, when a certain someone hides the fact that they don’t want to break it off, yet they play head games with you to make you realize it in the long run. Some people are just plain ol’ scared when it comes to spilling the news to someone that the relationship isn’t going well and the longer you wait, the more it hurts unfortunately.
If someone feels cheated that they weren’t given a fair chance in the relationship, then whoever the person breaking it off is definitely wrong in every aspect. If you’ve been together for years, then at least have the dignity to talk amongst each other, after all, you have talked to each other before if you’ve went out for such a long time.
There are actually two different types of breaking it off, or telling someone that it just isn’t working out. If you two have just met and you are interested in him or her, but the other person isn’t as interested, they can tell you off or just ignore you and make you figure it out for yourself. This can be due to a lack of physical attraction, which happens a lot in online dating scenes. Someone’s picture might seem attractive, but it doesn’t mean they look naturally like that in real life. People tend to take the best pictures they can take when posting them up on an online dating website, so why all the sudden is physical attraction or lack of it a big deal in breaking off a potential relationship? Unfortunately, there is nothing we could do about this and certain people are just cold hearted, as bad as that sounds. If you’ve been together with your partner for over a year, then it will hurt a bit more, because you two have probably been through thick and thin and the relationship really didn’t need to take that bad turn. Trying to talk it over is one way to possibly fix it, but once someone says it’s over, it normally is.
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