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Are You And Your Date Really Compatible?

Posted on 19. Mar, 2007 in Exclusive Articles

This is such a funny topic because I have seen this happen so many times, someone will not be too into their date and they will continue to go out with them, I never got it. What we really need to talk about is the fact that a relationship needs compatibility and that can be sought out within time. Many people rush into dating and that’s the worst thing you can do, you’ll say certain things to that one person that might sound really nice but in the long run, it really is hurting your chances of continuing on that particular relationship, yet you continue to date even though you know that one person isn’t really interested in you.
Certain attractions are noted in these types of relationships and it’s been studied that some people like that in another person, whether it’s a looks thing or a mental thing, I tend to believe it’s more mental since the personality is the main attraction in a relationship, in my opinion at least. Many people who have been together for months, yet do not have much in common tend to hurt themselves more and more as they continue dating, this should be taken care of sooner than later. Marriage is something that some of these types of people engage in and that’s definitely a big no no, especially if your beliefs are very strict, where as divorce isn’t as imminent as others religions would be.

People’s priorities towards one another are an important role in a relationship. You ask yourself “Am I compatible with this person?” The fact is, if you have to ask yourself that question, then it’s not exactly true. We always tend to go back to physical attraction and in this case, it’s definitely a huge possibility, but in the long run, personality is what makes or breaks a relationship. In this case, looks might take over that one person, especially if they have feelings in the back of their head that they might not find someone as attractive as the current person they are dating, yet they have absolutely nothing in common, think about it. Compatibility issues should be talked about amongst yourselves as this can help the both of you out, especially if you both or one of you is interested in continuing the relationship.

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3. Accepting The Fact That You Will Be Breaking Up.

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