How To Say No If You’re Not Interested In Your Date
Posted on 22. Mar, 2007 in Exclusive Articles
One of the most uneasy things you probably will do when you start dating is try to say no to whomever it is you are dating. Mentally, this can be quite tough and even though there is probably no connection between you and the other person, you most likely don’t want to upset that person, so what do you do? All in all, the truth hurts sometimes and there is nothing you can do about it, or is there? There are certain ways you can tell somebody that you aren’t interested in them. Limiting your boundaries can really hurt you in the long run and cause mental harm to the other person who might be a lot more interested in you than you are that specific person. If, on the first date you are unsure whether or not you are interested in that other person, you may want to ride it out some more because there are many things to look at on a first date. After all, the first date determines the outcome of a possible relationship and it’s important for most things if not everything to work out in both of your favor.
Unfortunately there are ways these days and those that have been going on for years and years now that really tend to hurt the person who might be more interested in the person who is not interested in them and while these ways might not be ethically correct, they really are in a way. The main way of telling someone you are interested in them is simply avoiding them, not taking their calls, or blowing them off in the short sense. People tend to get the picture after about the second day and while it may hurt a bit, there is really nothing you can do about it.
Since I said that avoiding the person is ethically correct, there are people that abuse these particular ways of saying no. Say you are a girl who isn’t naturally interested in the guy and you keep leading that guy on, that’s something you have to watch out for because if you avoid him, it will hurt a lot in the end. Lying is probably the number one problem that happens from this form of saying no. I have seen girls say yes to a second date, just to make the guy feel better. That’s wrong and you know it, if you aren’t interested, and then don’t say yes to a second date! Use your brain and do the right thing, because you wouldn’t want that happening to you, now would you?
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