Older Women Dating Younger Men (Part II)
Posted on 05. Aug, 2007 in Exclusive Articles, Love Articles, Romantic Articles
The statistics say today that every other marriage ends in divorce, which leaves single many men and women in their 40s, 50s and 60s. If men in their 40s and up want to date only women in their 20s and 30s (which is very frequent nowadays), who should the women in their 40s and up date then? Unlike men dating younger women, women dating younger men are still considered to be “cradle robbers”. Now, is this fair? A mature man can do whatever he wants, while a mature woman “must know her age and place”. Just because a woman is mature that doesn’t mean she has to sit in a chair and knit all day long. The mature and modern woman of today doesn’t care at all about “what the neighbors might say”, she is strong and self-confident, and she perfectly knows what she’s looking for and what does her happiness consist of. So, society should get used to the idea of older women dating and marrying younger men, for older women need to be happy too and they really don’t worry about what people say when they don’t agree with their way of thinking and doing things.
But why would a young man want to date an older woman? This is a very frequent question, but it has an answer according to some younger men, that have been and are dating older women. They say that older women are much more mature and trustworthy, they are strong and independent, and they don’t need a man to take care of them. They have had more experience and they believe in themselves. Older women care less about men’s money than younger women do. They tell them straightly in the face all that they think and they don’t play mind games with men, by pretending to be someone they’re not and then, later, showing their real face. Actually, these couples of younger men and older women have always existed; it’s just that they have been kept in secret till now. Today, it’s not a secret anymore and it is to be considered a normal state of things.
When young men are dating older women, these women tell them exactly what they want and expect from them. Thus, men know pretty well where they stand and what kind of relationship they have and they know when this relationship gets too serious or not. Mature women don’t usually play games, they just don’t have time for this and this isn’t what they want. They are looking for having some fun with persons that are interested in the same things that they are. Older women don’t care about younger men that are embarrassed to be seen with women like them, of their age. They would rather be alone than date this kind of young men, for whom the age difference is so important. And then, they easily move on, looking more on for somebody who doesn’t worry about the age difference.
Many people think that the only possible reason of a younger man dating an older woman is sack but this is only a half of the answer. Yes, women reach their sex maturity in their 30s and 40s and they are less inhibited during sex at this age. They know very well what they like and what they don’t and they’re always ready to try new things. Mature women are also looking a lot better today than they used to years ago, they pay a lot more attention to their bodies. And even if their bodies don’t look like 20-years old girls bodies, their younger daters claim that their experience is a lot more than that and supplies for it.
The most of mature women nowadays are not planning to make other families, and to have more babies, because they have spent their youth by doing it. But there are, of course, other cases of older women who haven’t had their families yet and these women may be eager to start a family. The perfect partner for her would be a young man, whose career isn’t so important for him and who would agree to stay at home and look after the kids. Another reason of young men dating older women is that they have a lot more things to discuss about and their conversations are a lot more interesting and fun. Older girlfriends are also not afraid of trying new things, going to new places. They are more experienced and have a lot of great things to share. Anyway, is the reason what it may be, (sometimes it may even be a combination of many reasons), it’s only the choice of young men to date an older woman or not. Why should age be an obstacle in the way of the happiness of two people, when they find many things in common and when they like each other? Life is complicated well enough and age shouldn’t be an inconvenient for people who just want to be happy and that’s all.
Read more about Older Women Dating Younger Men:
Older Women Dating Younger Men (Part I)
Dating an Older Woman
7 Tips for Dating Older Woman
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