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Speed Dating Tips for Women (PART I)

Posted on 10. Mar, 2008 in Exclusive Articles, Romantic Articles

Be Adequate
If the place where you have the date is a sophisticated restaurant, with high quality service and the best sorts of food and drinks, make sure you are one with this kind of environment. That is, dress up appropriately for the occasion, look at your best and behave yourself at your best too. If you have problems with dressing for this kind of occasions, click here to see details and advices, and have some guiding for the dressing code.
Be Positive
Positive people always attract everyone for positive energy brings only positive one in turn. So if you want to make a first and good impression, don’t even think of being angry or sad-a positive attitude will do everything for you.
Don’t Give Too Much Personal Information
One of the best, safest, fastest and most fun methods of meeting singles is speed dating. You can keep it that way as long as you don’t give too many personal details, that is your telephone number, last name, email address and so on. Just make sure you leave a sign in front of his nickname in your Fast Impressions folder and if he does the same thing with you, it means you both have an interest in each other and, thus, you will be able to meet again.
Be Yourself
People who pretend to be someone they’re not, who play certain roles as if they were on a theatre scene are not liked by any society. Just be yourself and be proud of who you are, otherwise it means you have some problems with your self-confidence, and you’ll have to solve them before going on. There is a lot of information about it, a lot of books and different courses.
Replace The Question “What Do You Do?” with “What Do You Enjoy Doing?”
Usually the question of “What do you do for a living?” spoils all, a thing related both for women and men (men, in this situation, generally think you want to check how rich they are). Besides, not everyone likes the work he’s doing and not everyone’s proud of it. Instead of this question, why not ask, “What do you enjoy doing?”
Listen to Your Conversation Partner
Almost all people (with little exceptions) like talking about themselves, so showing an interest in them is the best thing you can do. Stop talking only about yourself and ask him questions by the means of which you can find out more things about the man you have a date with.
To bring an example, we’ll tell the story of a conversation of Jay Abrahams (a marketing expert) with a stranger that he met in a bar in Sydney. All he did was to introduce himself, tell the stranger what brought him to that city and then he asked a simple question. He asked the stranger what the last one was doing in Sydney.
Their “conversation” had lasted an hour and, during it, the stranger didn’t stop talking while Jay Abrahams listened to him. At last, the stranger got up to leave and told Jay he was one of the most interesting people he had ever met. Take in consideration that the only words Jay said during the whole conversation were when he introduced himself and the question he put to the stranger!
People are attracted by people that show an interest in them. The conclusion is that, in a conversation, you should LISTEN as much as possible to the person you’re talking to.

Read Speed Dating Tips for Women (PART II)

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