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Older Women Dating Younger Men (Part II)

admin — Mon, 06 Aug 2007 04:31:31 +0000

The statistics say today that every other marriage ends in divorce, which leaves single many men and women in their 40s, 50s and 60s. If men in their 40s and up want to date only women in their 20s and 30s (which is very frequent nowadays), who should the women in their 40s and up date then? Unlike men dating younger women, women dating younger men are still considered to be “cradle robbers”. Now, is this fair? A mature man can do whatever he wants, while a mature woman “must know her age and place”. Just because a woman is mature that doesn’t mean she has to sit in a chair and knit all day long. The mature and modern woman of today doesn’t care at all about “what the neighbors might say”, she is strong and self-confident, and she perfectly knows what she’s looking for and what does her happiness consist of. So, society should get used to the idea of older women dating and marrying younger men, for older women need to be happy too and they really don’t worry about what people say when they don’t agree with their way of thinking and doing things.
But why would a young man want to date an older woman? This is a very frequent question, but it has an answer according to some younger men, that have been and are dating older women. They say that older women are much more mature and trustworthy, they are strong and independent, and they don’t need a man to take care of them. They have had more experience and they believe in themselves. Older women care less about men’s money than younger women do. They tell them straightly in the face all that they think and they don’t play mind games with men, by pretending to be someone they’re not and then, later, showing their real face. Actually, these couples of younger men and older women have always existed; it’s just that they have been kept in secret till now. Today, it’s not a secret anymore and it is to be considered a normal state of things.
When young men are dating older women, these women tell them exactly what they want and expect from them. Thus, men know pretty well where they stand and what kind of relationship they have and they know when this relationship gets too serious or not. Mature women don’t usually play games, they just don’t have time for this and this isn’t what they want. They are looking for having some fun with persons that are interested in the same things that they are. Older women don’t care about younger men that are embarrassed to be seen with women like them, of their age. They would rather be alone than date this kind of young men, for whom the age difference is so important. And then, they easily move on, looking more on for somebody who doesn’t worry about the age difference.
Many people think that the only possible reason of a younger man dating an older woman is sack but this is only a half of the answer. Yes, women reach their sex maturity in their 30s and 40s and they are less inhibited during sex at this age. They know very well what they like and what they don’t and they’re always ready to try new things. Mature women are also looking a lot better today than they used to years ago, they pay a lot more attention to their bodies. And even if their bodies don’t look like 20-years old girls bodies, their younger daters claim that their experience is a lot more than that and supplies for it.
The most of mature women nowadays are not planning to make other families, and to have more babies, because they have spent their youth by doing it. But there are, of course, other cases of older women who haven’t had their families yet and these women may be eager to start a family. The perfect partner for her would be a young man, whose career isn’t so important for him and who would agree to stay at home and look after the kids. Another reason of young men dating older women is that they have a lot more things to discuss about and their conversations are a lot more interesting and fun. Older girlfriends are also not afraid of trying new things, going to new places. They are more experienced and have a lot of great things to share. Anyway, is the reason what it may be, (sometimes it may even be a combination of many reasons), it’s only the choice of young men to date an older woman or not. Why should age be an obstacle in the way of the happiness of two people, when they find many things in common and when they like each other? Life is complicated well enough and age shouldn’t be an inconvenient for people who just want to be happy and that’s all.

Read more about Older Women Dating Younger Men:
Older Women Dating Younger Men (Part I)
Dating an Older Woman
7 Tips for Dating Older Woman

Older Women Dating Younger Men (Part I)

admin — Thu, 02 Aug 2007 01:56:54 +0000

A long time ago, men used to date women that were younger than them, often even half their age. Today its women who date men younger than them, sometimes even of the ages of their sons. This is already a common state of things and it happened thanks to some great dating tips for women that the roles of the two sexes have changed.
It is very unfair to admit men dating younger women and to repel women dating younger men. Why can’t the women do what men have been doing for years and which was considered to be common and normal for them?
There isn’t any difference in that and it is time for women to stop thinking about what the rest of the people think about their relationships. It’s time for women to be happy in their turn and here are a lot of reasons to do it:

Fun and Excitement – A Little Get Up and Go
After a woman has finally raised her children and after having given up a lot of interesting things, such as parties, trips and new activities, she needs to have a life of her own. She would rather choose to go looking for an adventure than sit next to a man of her age in front of the TV, watching David Letterman!
No, no, we don’t have anything against David Letterman, but a woman feels the need to go out, to dress up appropriately and feel to be a woman, so when she’ll have to choose between an old man resting at home and a younger man that usually goes out on Saturday night, she will choose the second one. Of course, there are also exceptions, but the most of women would prefer a nice, exciting adventure.
Responsibilities and Baggage
The most important advantage in dating younger men is that they don’t have as many responsibilities and problems as the older men do. These problems and responsibilities include financial support for their children, ex-wives and a lot more of other excess past baggage. That’s why older men won’t want to take on their shoulders any more responsibilities for they are hardly moving on with their own. Younger men usually are not yet introduced to these chapters of their lives, so when having to choose between a younger and an older man a woman will surely want to choose the younger one, for he is free of problems.
There are, of course, young men with a past baggage of problems too, but these problems are usually not as big as an older man’s. Still, there are a lot of young men in this world with no baggage at all!
Better Sex
This may sound rude and exaggerated to the most of mature men, and they may even feel insulted by it, but this is the way the things are going. Once the years pass, a man begins to lose his forces, his energy and even desire, which he has had when being young. Usually younger men are more interested in sex than older men are, and, vice versa, older women are more interested in sex than younger women are. Once women mature, they get more stable and self-confident, who makes them “feel sexy”. This truth might create diversions and opposite opinions, but it still remains the truth.
The main difference between younger and older men is that younger men usually have this willingness to experiment and the indifference about what other people say. Younger men also don’t pay so much attention to the body, so even when you are worried about your few extra pounds, it doesn’t matter, because sex is all that matters to them!

Dating tips for women help, but you will need to find the right one for you. So, after all that has been said above, maybe it’s time for you to look for a younger man!

Read more about Older Women Dating Younger Men:
Dating an Older Woman
7 Tips for Dating Older Woman

20 Dates for Under $20

admin — Mon, 30 Jul 2007 05:28:52 +0000

If the weather is suitable and there is a desire of adventure there will be no reason why you and your partner shouldn’t go out for a date, even if you think money would be a problem. This is a list of 20 dates you won’t forget and that won’t require more than $20 each:

1. Take a walk downtown and get to know new places and things. Perhaps, you will find some ideas for other dates.
2. Go for a picnic at the beach, in the mountains or even in your own backyard. You will only need a blanket, some sandwiches and a bottle of $5 wine for this.
3. Have fun by playing golf, riding go-carts, playing laser tag or just go bowling.
4. If you go to a beach, take a blanket with you and buy some cheese and a bottle of wine, and you will be able to watch the sunset together.
5. There are a lot of wineries that require around $5 for tasting five different wines. Besides, you will be able to keep the glass for a memory of your date.
6. Park fees for settling a tent charge less than $10, so buy some food and drinks, go camping and watch the stars at night.
7. Go to a local pool and play pool games. They cost less than $2,so you have money left for beer too.
8. Take your partner for a ride, see different nice places and stop at a cafe to have some coffee and ice cream.
9. Go to local galleries and have a lot of privileges from it. For example, some art walks during the summer in many cities offer a free glass of wine.
10. Take a walk to the park or downtown, buy some ice cream and have fun by watching the people around you.
11. Make a stake. You will need some firewood for this. You can also buy some snacks and drinks or make ‘smores.
12. There are many creation studios that for nearly $6 dollars an hour allows you to paint pottery or something like that.
13. Go to a botanical garden. Thus you will spend less than $10 for a ticket and instead have a wonderful time by walking hand in hand with your partner through different flower gardens and tropical forests.
14. Go to a discount movie theater, but first of all choose a rainy day for it.
15. Rent a two-seater bike and go to a park, rent a boat on a lake or just go roller- or ice-skating.
16. You can go on a hike and make it romantic by bringing with you champagne, glasses and strawberries.
17. Museums can be a perfect place for a date for they offer free entry a few days per month or even all the time.
18. You can spend your time with joy and remember your childhood by going to swim to a local lake or a pool and bringing with you some water toys.
19. Most of the local restaurants and bars in the town have special hours when they offer food and drinks at half the price, so that less than $20 will be enough for you to have two drinks and have a nice meal too. Just look through the newspaper or search online for them.
20. If you go to a zoo, you will need less than $10 for the tickets. You can also have your own little picnic there by buying some snacks and water.

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Dating an Older Woman

admin — Mon, 23 Apr 2007 00:28:28 +0000

From a guy’s experience, many of them date woman that are younger than them, this is just a personal preference for many, but a lot of other guys have different opinions on this topic. If a woman is older than a man, she can be dominant in that department; some guys get turned on by this while some guys are turned off by it. The problems that can evolve around this can be deadly to a relationship and can really hurt someone’s feelings, especially the woman’s if the guy finds out she is older than him. While many guys enjoy being older than the woman, there are many guys who enjoy this a lot. If a guy isn’t as experienced as others, he might enjoy having a woman who is older and more experienced than him, this will make things a lot easier on his part, say they start becoming intimate.
Relationships aren’t all about being intimate or having sex, but it’s a huge deal to a lot of people who are really in love. When we discuss the topic “Dating an Older Woman”, there are actually two different views in this category, one is dating an older woman who is closer to your age, and the other is one who is a bit far away from your age, about 10-20 years away. In my opinion, this is a huge turn off to me, because the woman would be old enough to be my mother, but some guys are turned on by this.

A woman has her views of how she likes a man, and the statistics shows that many woman like their men older than them. Most women have come out and stated that they would like their man to be more experienced than themselves, and that they be more mature than themselves. Just because a man is younger than a woman, doesn’t naturally mean they are more immature than them woman, it just means that the woman is older than the man. Obviously there is nothing wrong with dating someone older or younger than you, it’s just how you feel about that specific person. Age is basically just a number, and that’s all you should really worry about.